Scorpios I can handle, I can even handle a Scorpio Moon and an Aries Moon (I am heavily influenced by Pisces!) The content produced by YourTango is for informational and educational purposes only. They see everyone as mindless and feel called to enlighten them. This was a great and successful political move and also true to his sign. Really a Pisces dreamworld is the realest compared to it. Chastity, this article is solely about Libra's dark side. Can breast milk come back after drying up? my friends would say your mom is so nice. "Whoa is me"..libra. Librans want peace and negative ones want it at any price, even if it means sneaking around, denying, controlling, and drama. Not one good libra i came along,what's wrong with this sign ,i mean seriously? (3) I had the "right" appearance for him to be seen with. We've all got good and bad sides ofcourse since nobodys perfect but I find Libras so well rounded. i would wonder why she never was nice to me. I would also like to remind everyone that this isn't a "meltdown" I am having a reasonable opinion. When a Libra woman finds herself unable to focus on things that bring her pleasure, then she may become increasingly unsatisfied with her life. When I meet new people, I always try and find a way of getting through the backdoor to their psyche - Astrology being my usual tool. A Libra mom still reminds her 50-year-old daughters to say thank you.. I know someone with libra sun and moon who has all of the above mentioned as well. We read articles books and stuff that interests us to gain a better understanding about ourselves and others, so we can become good at observing people and have a fair (that's a questionable statement) judgement in situations. She may be selfish, but this is not meant to be neglectful or abusive. Emotional balance is so important to a Libra. My life was fairly quiet and normal until Mr. Libra came into my life. I use to be a joyful person and chose to spread that joy until i actually got out of dreamland and saw reality and i just lost all hope in humanity so if reading this comment and this article amuses you or disgust you and youd rather have bitter, souless people in your life like ive become then ruin someones accidental innocent hope of life and the world. If you notice that she has isolated herself, then you should take the time to teach yourself about what happens when a Libra woman is sad. Loyalty well basically they have none. But the best thing I sickening Libra is that they always find a patsy to do their dirty work, who come out worst in their name but unconsciously. I found out later they talked on the phone after my wife told me. Their kids are not allowed to love anyone but her, the mother. People can be quixotic and dynamic. I'm a Libra Sun with a Libra Ascendant. Most people are made of many layers, and can exhibit any set of traits associated with a various signs at any given time. RELATED: The Best & Worst Personality Traits Of The Capricorn Zodiac Sign. but went and scratched in my guys past and found out information to try and make me end things with him. My wife told me how she was teased a lot coming up and I was did all I could to show her how much I loved her. Hard to believe? We were close like family and talked a lot on the phone and only during work hours(my choice after we started dating in 2000). A Libra woman thrives in entertainment, happiness, joy and elegance. Today he's converted into spiritualist religion, and I hope he's changed now although a few years back he let slip something about one of his sons who he said "he is very serious" and that "he is different from the younger one". The males appear to be charming, romantic and very friendly. 2023 The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers on this website. when, in fact, your sign might have some deeper insights into your personality traits instead of just scratching the surface. A Libra woman may choose to no longer focus on aspects of her life that she once valued. I am pretty sure there are killers of all signsand actually if you've only found 5 twisted people in Libra, that in fact disproves your point. Lolz, I think your Sun might be among those Scorpio stars. He is probably one of the shitiest father's of met, however, I am one of the most fatherly/tribal individuals you'll ever meet. Sylvia Sky (author) from USA on September 18, 2016: Chastity, this article is solely about Libra's dark side. She made me hate my dad for cheating but she herself cheat several times. Then found out he had suffered a bad injury. Think of Mahatma Gandhi. He will talk to you for hours about anything. This might take some time, but once you go to yourself first for consolation and try some introspection, you can learn how to manage your emotions around others and even figure out what makes you feel better in times of stress or sadness, helping you bounce back quicker and better than ever. I was married to a Virgo, and we got along well. )are NOT COMPATIBLE? I want to know what's going wrong because I'm doing all the right things but all I'm getting is disappointment. Libras aren't always recognized for being sensitive. I've been taken advantage a o lot by just caring too much and i get furious i throw all that hate in my family witch they do not deserve it .but at the end family is my home is when i want people to understand me, to listen me when im angry when im sad when i need a advise .we need to take care of ourselves but we do not do it because we put in priority others . I was shocked at how "fake nice" my Libra college professor (who was also my advisor for a college club) would talk SH*T about other professors, administrators and anyone who seemed to have a "higher position" of authority than her. This is also called sosiopathic. Or is it the karma ? I eventually had to reject him, "block" him and go "No Contact" with Mr. Libra 2. They're good communicators and mediators; they know what words that all the patience and wise people would say, so you would believe them and even sympathise with them. A lawyer once made a circle of names with a dot in the center. This is very true about Libras. I'm sorry many of you have had incredibly bad experiences with Librans, but understand that not all of them deserve to be so harshly judged. She thinks I walked out on her? Libra is a sign ruled by Venus, which means Libras prefer to use logic over emotion. Visit SAMHSA's website, or call 1-800-662-HELP (4357) or 1-800-273-TALK (8255). When Libras get sad they feel like their heart is breaking. Or the inability to care about circumstances in our roomie situation that were distressing to me as I thought of her like a sister. I'm a Capricorn we are smarter than this. My ruling element is air, ruling sign Gemini and as a Gemini, I can't stand Librans in general. After a while i did not allow him to do much for me. Libra Woman. Found them all to be selfish, controlling, manioulative, held grudges, calulating, little empathy towards others. When this occurs, she may choose to turn her attention elsewhere. Yes, lazyness is something theyll admit to. I'm a Libra with lots of planets in Scorpio. People themselves don't know what drives them. I'm 28 years old , born on September 27 and I wish I can hear stories of girls who share the same birthday with me as I need some answers. My friend never said a single word ever. Libra (September 23 - October 22) She may have a hard time . But do love a tennis match with a Libra! I avoid it like the plague. (tall, thin, blond). I feel that 2015/ 2016 were the worst years of my life. Try to spend plenty of quality time with your Libra because they value one-on-one time and often aren't happy being alone. I love so deeply and I treat my man like he's a god hoping to get that amount of attention in return but it never happens. So while the posted article was interesting, it basically told one aspect of a particularly warped type of Libra. Librans are gifted with eloquence and intelligence but cant make a concrete decision to save their life! A negative Libra will move in with or marry someone to escape the financial or emotional pit they have dug for themselves. I am a libra male born on September 23rd. So Im like that is the craziest thing. A lifelong libra friend I'm strongly considering giving up. But if they open up, their anger and sadness could lead to disaster. I am no drama queen though. This may cause her to re-evaluate the goals and ideologies that she maintains. Libras are known to hide their real feelings in order to avoid conflicts with the people around them. It can be easy to spot this change in a Sagittarius because it is so out of character and such a contrast to the type of person they usually are. We crave beauty and an ethereal, gossamer rythm to the world around us..and the people in our lives.but we never demand anything that those around us are incapable of providing. I. Because, my inability to cope with my emotions and disability to be alone should never weight others down. After more than four decades, I have realized that II much more prefer the company and friendship of other fellow Librans. It is important for her strong social and emotional relationships to provide her with support, as she may feel that the people she pushed away have chosen to ignore her. I, never classify anyone by gender, rase, ethnic aspect, sexuality or beliefs. You probably deserved it etc. i have never told her. She uses people and shes a know it all. Both can be very friendly, sweet, helpfulbut then they seem to turn on a dime. I used to call her a best friend but she is far from it. I think Libra's are not all heartless, but they tend to be very practical and don't marinate in their emotions a lot. I'm just dealing with a toxic one. She is conniving, manipulative and a backstabber. He'll keep a lid on his feelings. This will help her reach a state of mind that is more stable and tranquil. Libra Man Not Texting Back: What Do I Do? All that's left (like the bad traits mentioned above which seemed to me like traits of a dangerous personality disorder) is formed depending on countless variables (the way one was raised, experiences etc..) we do have a dark side, but we don't all react the same way. The cat she got for us 1month before she moved in liked me more than her so we got 1 more so they could play together that failed dead cat. Tired Aries woman sick of the Libra injustice. He used to sexually abuse me, in a very sadistic way, sneaking into my bed when I was sleeping. If one looks at the long picture of a persons actions or decisions, they may fall more into one sign than others. Virgo usually has a good head on their shoulders until they get upset. Aug. 18, 2021, 9:03 a.m. Cancer: Cancers can not hide their emotions and really cannot control them (for the most part that is). My experience with a Libran is usually very superficial and passive. I'll take it all. 04/13Libra The alarm bells were ringing, I was no longer denying the gut and i made sure I got her whole astrology chart (on the pretense of performing a compatibility report for her new Prey). (Mr. Libra perceived that as "popular"). It might take five years to get your own Libra male off your sofa. I used to not believe my own sister could be so mean spirited, but I wised up and will never trust my sister again. I dont think I'm fake or that im better than anyone bc the only perfect one is God and ive had a too messed up childhood to think im better than anyone, also being my father recently passed this year Feb 2019. While we were dating i let her know about my one true longtime best friend which was my first ex (gemini)from high school yrs (different schools). Like she has some sort of ledger in her head. They cannot be in one relationship and as soon they breakup with you, you will find out they are dating someone else with no compassion of your broken heart. Those born in the first week of October are prone to depression (saturn decan) due to their repressed emotions and hide it so well. Scorpios are all about ruining your life and possibly planning to kill by all means. The determined, level-headed Capricorn can become the complete opposite when depressed. When she reacts in an inappropriate manner, it is likely that she will push people away from her. I am a bi Leo female and fell for this Libra woman, who I have been friends with for around 2-3 years, and fell for her over a year ago. Mr Libra 2 also had LOT of Scorpio. They exhibit intense melancholy with paranoia, and their own thoughts become scary to them. Saying Yes When They Mean No Libras hate arguing more than any other sign, so they often try to be agreeable in an attempt to avoid any possible conflict with their partner. But as anyone who has dated Libras will know, they can also be very jealous and possessive. I'm fascinated by them. My mom is one and i was in love with one. According to the CDC, "more than two in five adults experienced symptoms of anxiety or a depressive disorder in their lifetime." We also tend to be great liars, but the guilt eats us away. Because of your interest in an Aquarius woman in your , The relationship that you maintain with an Aquarius man must , It is likely that you will find that the behaviors , If you want to show your guy just how much , Regardless of the nature of your relationship, it is certain , what happens when each zodiac sign is sad, how to have a healthy relationship with a Libra woman. Please take time to read a few of her books to understand what she was really all about. Im happy i read this because hubpages looks like an awesome website. Stressful Circumstances. There's three types of Libra Suns: Libras who have Mercury in Virgo, Libras who have Mercury in Scorpio, and Libras who have Mercury in Libra. No one believes he's got so many dark secrets in his life but only the very close ones to him, like his ex-wife who I learned, only once they got divorced, that he was very aggressive to her indoors. It will benefit her if you take the time to support her by giving her the means to explore her interests. Scorpio Man Not Texting Back: What Do I Do? Since Aries is known for being very blunt, they may say something that cuts Libra deep. This article was accurate about "some" of my dark traits. And I suspect that he would sexually rape his ex-wife little sister when she was about 10 y/o and I was about 14, but then I never had any proofs of it nor she ever said anything about it, like I myself never did say a word with fear, when I was being raped for all those nights. What makes worse about him is that he is double faced and people can only see his bright side, that he is helpful to people, he helps my sister financially, he cares about my parents and is looking after them. I have a Libra "friend" that I grew up with and I thought she was the nicest person but now I realize how untrue that is. Also i can tell when someone lies so easily buy the way they look at you . yes, avoiding confrontation is not a tenable objective and will lead to outbursts (what's term in the title- yes, repressed); people born in October avoid confrontation, no = can't be proven. That only helps to make it clear that those people are not compatible and I don't want them in my life. However, when she is under emotional stress, it is likely that she will begin to feel uncertain or confused about decisions that she has previously made. Thank God doctors brought me back alive. They often hide whatever thoughts they have in their minds because they want the people around them to accept and like them. which was when i was very young. Aries does not like anyone to know their weaknesses, so if they feel sad, it often comes across as anger or frustration. Are Libras logical or emotional? Do Libras hide their emotions? And for those poor souls who's either or both parents/ brothers or sisters/in laws etc were Librans- Ouch, I truly feel sorry. 4.) i can tell you my mother is a libra and this fits her to a t. she made my life a living hell. I knew then she truly was that ugly person from Christmas. Then he stop talking to me. I've been in two long relationships with Aquarius and Gemini , they are supposed to be the best compatible signs with libra but not in my case , they care too much about their parents and careers more than the woman they love. They're short-tempered and needy and are prone to turning themselves into a martyr if they know it'll help their cause. its like they trick themselves they feed their demons till they are so very full and they enjoy it. Sylvia Sky (author) from USA on September 06, 2016: The constellation Libra contains stars that belonged to Scorpio until astronomers (not astrologers!) So while avoiding ugliness and confrontations, I work hard to make those things never happen. When he learned I didn't own a car, he would "insist" on driving home from class. This content is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional. All scorpios are poison and made out to be like we're the horrible ones. Why make an indecisive person a leader? I am an Aries woman. Pretending to be nice is so much more hurtful than being honest. True Librans dont like conflict or ugliness. They say Librans hate conflict and that we shy away from them, that's what others see, but what they don't realize is that we're fighting not to open our mouths out of psychologically, emotionally and spiritually dismantling you on the spot. Creating injustice and spreading unfairness tip the balance of the scales in which Libras will work tirelessly to set back right. 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